Board Library/Saying NoTricky conversationsSaying NoDecline a favor, protect your time, or set a limit without turning it into a long explanation.18 messagesKinddirectINSIDE THIS BOARDCopy the message you need.18Can’t take it onI can’t take this on right now. I’d rather be clear than say yes and let you down.CopyNot this invitationThanks for including me. I’m going to sit this one out, but I hope you have a great time.CopyTime to thinkI don’t want to answer on the spot. Can I think it over and get back to you?CopyA smaller yesI can help you get started, but I can’t take over the whole thing. Would that still be useful?CopyChanged my answerI said yes too quickly. Looking at what’s involved, I can’t follow through, and I’m sorry for the change.CopyNeed some noticeI can’t make last-minute plans very often. Please give me a bit more notice next time.CopyNo calls right nowI can’t take a call right now. Could you text me what it’s about?CopyKeep it privateI’d rather keep that to myself. Thanks for understanding.CopyDon’t share itPlease don’t share that outside this conversation. I told you because I trust you.CopyAsk before postingPlease check with me before posting photos of me. I’d like to choose what goes online.CopyNot tonightI care about what’s going on, but I don’t have the energy for a heavy conversation tonight. Could we talk another time?CopyNo advice neededI appreciate that you’re trying to help. Right now I’d rather be heard than get advice.CopyNo surprise visitsPlease check with me before coming over. I’m not always up for visitors.CopyNot the messengerI don’t want to pass messages between you two. Could you talk to each other directly?CopyStill noI understand this matters to you. My answer is still no, and I don’t want to leave you expecting that to change.CopyStop the jokeI know you may mean it as a joke, but I don’t like being spoken to that way. Please stop.CopyKeep the contact hereI’m comfortable chatting here, but I’m not sharing my number.CopyEnd the debateI’ve explained what I can do. I’m going to leave the conversation here for now.CopyMORE BOARDSKeep exploring.Money with FriendsTalk about shared costs, repayments, and plans that don’t fit your budget.Clear the AirOwn a mistake, clear up a misunderstanding, or explain what hurt you without starting a fight.Showing SupportFind thoughtful words for a hard day, a loss, or a friend who doesn’t need another pep talk.
